The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast
Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey.
Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healthy power dynamics, and open communication. With a commitment to inclusivity, she helps kinksters create authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences.
Whether you're seeking guidance, desiring to deepen your understanding of the lifestyle, or simply looking for entertainment and connection, the Dom Sub Living Podcast is your trusted companion. You’ll learn about BDSM, kink, power exchange, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships (DDlg), D/s, sexual wellness, bondage, and more. Each episode features engaging discussions, expert interviews, and heartfelt stories, ensuring a diverse and enriching listening experience you're not going to want to miss. Hit subscribe, and get ready to transform your life and relationship.
Episodes
84 episodes
Soft Doms Are In—What Gentle Domination Looks Like
#084 Is it still dominance if it’s gentle?🎁 Grab the free quick-start guide to become a better Dom: https://domsubliving.com/dominantTurns out, soft domination isn’t weakness—it’s an...
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Episode 84
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14:24
Why BDSM Works Better Than Therapy (For Some People)
#083 What if therapy isn't the only way to heal — and sometimes, it's not even the best way?👉 Grab free resources at https://domsubliving.com/free.In this episode, we're sharing why BDSM...
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Episode 83
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23:53
5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight
#082 Who says you need a dungeon or hours of planning for a night you’ll never forget?🎁 Want step-by-step worksheets and real scene examples to put these ideas into action? Check out our “Scene Creation Mastery” (only $9!) at
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Episode 82
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32:03
BDSM & Polyamory: Master Multiple Power Dynamics Without Drama
#081 Poly and kinky? It’s not as easy as people think.❤️ Download the free BDSM Relationship Structure Guide at https://domsubliving.com/guideWe're sharing 5 essential rules for making BDSM and polyamory work—without the drama. Le...
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Episode 81
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12:10
AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub?
#080 Would you ever take orders from an AI Dom or command an AI sub?🎯 Want to build real D/s dynamics instead of relying on AI? Grab my free BDSM Scene Template at domsubliving.com/scene!<...
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Episode 80
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15:15
Dominants vs. Submissives: Who Really Has It Harder?
#079 Who's got it tougher in a D/s dynamic, Dominants or submissives?🔥 Ready to level up your Dom/sub game? Check out https://domsubtraining.comWe're tackling this hot topic, and it might ...
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Episode 79
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17:27
How to Be a More Confident Dominant
#078 If you don’t trust your own Dominance, your submissive won’t either.🚀 Get your free How to Be a Good Dom Quick Start Guide at https://domsubliving.com/domConfidence isn’t abou...
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Episode 78
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20:39
50 Game-Changing BDSM Tips in 15 Minutes
#077 After 10 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle—teaching, coaching, and living it 24/7—here are 50 game-changing BDSM tips in just 15 minutes!Want to go deeper with me on BDSM and D/s dynamics? Check out my free resources to enha...
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Episode 77
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15:11
Bondage for Beginners & Beyond: Ideas, Tips & Mistakes
#076 Is your bondage routine feeling a bit stale? By the end of this episode, you'll be itching to try something new.👉 Snag a free ticket to the next summit at https://domsubdynamics.com/A...
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Episode 76
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16:13
10 Most Popular Kinks (Are Yours on the List?)
#075 Think your kink is too weird or too basic? Spoiler: It's probably more common than you think!✅ Download your free checklist of over 50 different kinks at https://domsubliving.com/checklis...
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Episode 75
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28:06
5 Sensation Play Tips for an Unforgettable Experience
#074 Discover game-changing sensation play techniques!🔥 Read a real-life sensation play scene in action: https://domsubliving.com/sceneEver wondered how to make your BDSM scenes 10 time...
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Episode 74
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21:21
3 BDSM Mistakes I Made (That Almost Ruined My Journey!)
#073 Are you guilty of these biggest BDSM blunders? You're not alone!💪 Master the Dom/sub lifesyle: https://domsubliving.com/freeWe're revealing the surprises and challenges we encounter...
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Episode 73
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17:29
Kink Beyond the Bedroom: What No One Tells You
#072 Can you balance a power exchange with everyday life? What about raising kids in a D/s relationship?🔥 Grab our free BDSM resources at https://domsubliving.com/freeIn this episode, li...
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Episode 72
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45:15
Why BDSM Turns You On: The Psychology of Kink
#071 Why do forbidden things turn us on so much? It's not just about pleasure—it's psychology.✅ Get your FREE BDSM checklist with 50+ kinks: https://domsubliving.com/checklistWe're ...
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Episode 71
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22:30
Our 24/7 Total Power Exchange Relationship: How We Built It
#070 Total power exchange sounds intense, right? But it's not just about control; it's about trust, intention, and freedom.📝 Download your free customizable contract at https://domsubliving.com...
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Episode 70
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26:12
Wearing a Collar 24/7 in My D/s Marriage: What It’s Really Like
#069 "When my Dom secured the collar around my neck, it gave me a huge sense of belonging and trust like never before."❤️ Visit https://domsubliving.com/eternity to get $20 off your own col...
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Episode 69
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20:03
How to Reignite the Fire in Your Dom/sub Relationship
#068 Feeling like the passion in your D/s dynamic has faded? You’re not alone—but you can bring it back!👉 Ready to reconnect and thrive in your dynamic? Explore more at https://domsubliving.co...
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Episode 68
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13:17
BDSM in Real Life: A Dom/sub Married Couple Shares Their Journey
#067 Is it possible to balance love, family, and a Dom/sub dynamic?👉 Ready to dive deeper? Join our All-Access Pass community at domsubliving.com/allaccessIn this episode, we chat w...
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Episode 67
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35:18
What Most People Get Wrong About BDSM Negotiation
#066 Negotiation isn't just a skill, it's a gift you give your dynamic.🌟 Exclusive Offer: Are you ready to elevate your negotiation skills? Check out our All Access Pass now: https://do...
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Episode 66
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16:04
5 BDSM Experts Reveal the #1 Thing They Wish They Knew Before Starting
#065 There's no guidebook for BDSM - but what if you could learn from experienced kinksters?🌟 Bonus: Access free resources and exclusive content at https://domsubliving.com/giftWe gathe...
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Episode 65
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26:16
BDSM Goals: The Kinkiest Bucket List You’ll Ever See
#064 Is your kinky bucket list feeling a bit uninspired? Let's spice it up together!👉 Download your free BDSM Bingo Card at domsubliving.com/bingoWe're diving deep into setting BDSM goa...
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Episode 64
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14:46
How to Handle Dom/sub Conflict Without Breaking the Dynamic
#063 Can conflict in a Dom/sub relationship become a tool for deeper connection?🔥 Download your free Protocols Master List: https://domsubliving.com/protocolsWe're diving into a common...
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Episode 63
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17:24
Q&A With a 24/7 Submissive - Ask Me Anything!
#062 Ever wonder how to truly crawl into your sub's mind or stay proactive as a sub without 'topping from the bottom? This Ask Me Anything episode is packed with your most thought-provoking questions. We’re covering:How to deeply un...
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Episode 62
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39:27
Impact Play 101: 5 Beginner-Friendly Ideas to Try Now
#061 Curious about impact play but don’t know where to start? Or maybe you’re worried about doing it wrong? Don’t stress—you’re in the right place. In this episode, we'll guide you through 5 easy, beginner-friendly impact play ideas that are sa...
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Episode 61
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16:47
Exploring Your Kinky Identity: BDSM Roles Beyond Dom and Sub
#060 What's your role in the world of BDSM? Let's dive in and find out! Join us as we break down the ins and outs of BDSM roles. From Dominants and submissives to fun niche roles like primal play and rope bondage, there's something for everyone...
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Episode 60
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